"Because it’s so hard to climb the ladder, it feels like people think that there is just that one spot up there ..."
In the final part of our interview with Hazel Aggrey-Orleans, we converse about the importance of support networks and mentorship. The discussion then concludes with some of Hazel’s pivotal successes and exciting future ambitions.
And so the conversation continues …
Support Networks
It is so easy to quit, but if you know for the journey you are on that there is goal at the end, then you just keep going with the vision. That has really helped me. Good support systems are all about positivity and surrounding yourself with the right kind of energy and people around you. It's tough, but you have to be part away with negative people that won't be supportive.
Sometimes I feel when it comes to African fashion, that there is too much competition. Because it so hard to climb the ladder, when someone has climbed the ladder, they sort of push the ladder down for no-one to follow. And I feel that there should be more coming together and helping each other. Even if it just means mentorship and helping new designers start up their business or even mentoring by collaborating with them. I just feel there is this notion that “this is mine, and I don’t want to help anyone else.” Because it’s so hard to climb the ladder, it feels like people think that there is just that one spot up there, and therefore only they can or should grab that one spot.
I see this more with black fashion designers trying to get their fashion lines out into stores in Europe or getting exposure from the press here. That’s when the competition really starts. And I feel it is because there seems to be only that one slot for an African designer. So there is that huge competition, and I feel maybe we should forget that and come together and create our own platform to open up fantastic stores within Africa and Europe, and not just rely on the opportunities that only seem to have one vacant slot.
Black Women As Role Models
And then I guess an inspiration is Michelle Obama. Someone like that is hugely influential. I mean, to be the first lady, the wife of America’s first black president! To see how is she is gracefully handling that responsibility is hugely inspirational to me.
Sometimes Europe seems to appear multi-cultural, so it is not made an issue. But it is still an issue. When I think about the top black women in Europe, I really have to think very long and hard. And I shouldn’t have to, they should be more accessible. Even when I get asked which black female celebrity in the U.K. I would love to dress, I just can’t really think of anyone that comes immediately to mind.
The Importance of Mentorship
So it would be great to know such black women, to know more about them and how to even access them as mentors. Seriously, I mean .. like how do you access them? I wouldn’t even know where to go. I just know that when I meet someone and I think it would be good to their advice, I would do well to ask them.
And then it’s all about having a story, you can’t just have nice garments. They need to tell a story because you need to have some unique selling point that differentiates you from others. Everyone has nice garments, so when buyers ask “why should I buy you?”, it’s because of the designer or the story being told. Branding is also important, because you can find nice garments [everywhere]. But people buy into a brand, so the branding is very important.
You need to have so much passion, because fashion is not just the fashion show. That’s like two-percent of it! There is marketing, there is accounting, there is admin, there is … it just goes on. It’s a business you are running, it’s not just “oh, I’m designing nice clothes, and that’s it.” No, it’s the whole brand. I didn’t know that when I started, so when you go into fashion you have to understand that it is a business. From the social media to the press releases … everything needs to come together.
Lastly, it’s hard work, so you need to have a great work-ethic. When you start out, you tend to do most of it yourself. I still do most of it myself, I guess because I am a control-freak (laughs). I just like to know that I can rely on myself. If I rely too much on other people, I often get disappointed. I have someone that sort of works with me and she is great. She understands the business inside out, but I don’t have her full-time. I think when you are starting out, I wouldn’t say invest in a PR company because people don’t really know you yet. It takes some time for them to build your reputation, so you’re just paying them for not much in return. That was my mistake, because immediately they shoved me into: “oh, she’s an African designer, let’s put her in that corner there”.
Achievements And Future Ambitions
People now reach out to me to collaborate or ask if I could dress this person or that person, where before I was really just knocking on everyone’s door. And so that’s what I am really proud, to have done all these things and had not even come from a fashion background, but just being self-taught. And now I’m taken more seriously.
I’m definitely most proud of being a mum (laughs). Especially being a working mum, because it’s hard enough being a mum, but being a working mum is even harder. You know, balancing both to make sure you have enough time for your kids while still being successful with your business. Speaking for myself, I never want to ‘just’ be a mum, which itself is still hard work, but I wanted to own something that they [my children] would be proud of. I took both of them to South Africa and watching their little faces see me coming onto the catwalk was just … (smiles) … I didn’t care about the people in the audience but my kids. And I feel like “oh wow, they are proud of me, of their mum.” So them being proud of me is one of the things I am most proud of. Yes.
So yes, those are some of the things I am working towards. I don’t have everything set yet, but it’s all very exciting.
And So The Conversation Ends … For Now :)
What I most treasure about my heritage is …
My fashion design is very much interlinked with my experiences and where I go, and my experiences don’t stay static, they always change. So the way I would want to present those new stories will change over time. Because you always need to rejuvenate … reinvent yourself with time. You can’t keep doing the same thing as the environment around you changes and you need to adapt with it.
This post concludes the final part of our interview with Hazel Aggrey-Orleans. Catch-up on the earlier parts of our conversation.
Part 1: Hazel Aggrey-Orleans, The Quintessential ‘Eki Girl’
Part 2: Being African. Being European. Being Afro-European
Part 3: The Black Woman Still Wears An Invisibility Cloak
Image Source | These images do not belong to Yaaya. Images courtesy of Hazel Aggrey-Orleans, the Eki Orleans website, the Eki Orleans Facebook Page, and Selfridges
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